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Life as a Mum of Four: Chaos, Love, Guilt… and the Moments That Matter Most

Being a mum of four is something I don’t think anyone can truly prepare you for. My children are 6, 4, 1, and just 4 months old, which means life is loud, busy, and beautifully chaotic in ways I never imagined.

I started this blog to share my real experience—the kind you don’t always see. The messy bits, the emotional bits, the exhausting days… but also the love, the laughter, and those little moments that make everything worth it.

My Eldest: My Little Teammate

My 6-year-old son is at that amazing age where his personality is really shining through. He’s football mad—constantly kicking a ball around, talking about matches, dreaming big—and if he’s not doing that, he’s into his video games.

But more than anything, he’s patient. And that’s something I don’t think I appreciate enough.

Being the eldest of four, especially with such a big age gap between him and the baby, isn’t always easy. There are so many times when I have to say, “just give me a minute,” or “I’ll help you after I’ve sorted the baby,” and that minute turns into much longer.

And that’s where the mum guilt really hits.

The Mum Guilt is Real

Trying to juggle a newborn, a 1-year-old, a 4-year-old, and a 6-year-old means someone is always waiting. And more often than not, it’s him.

There are moments where I see it in his eyes—he just wants my full attention. To show me something on his game, to tell me about football, or just to have me sit with him without being interrupted.

And when I can’t always give him that, it hurts.

The guilt creeps in, making me question if I’m doing enough for him. If he feels pushed aside. If he understands how much I’m trying.

But what amazes me is how patient and understanding he is. He helps more than I ever expect him to. He waits (most of the time), and he loves his siblings so much.

It reminds me that even on the days I feel like I’m falling short, something must be going right.

My Second Born: My Little Firecracker

My 4-year-old daughter is, quite simply, a force of nature.

She has the most unique sense of style—think mismatched outfits, bold choices, and an absolute confidence that I honestly admire. What I might see as “that doesn’t quite go,” she wears like she’s walking a runway. And the best part? She owns it.

She’s also the loudest in the house (by far!) and the funniest. Her jokes don’t always make complete sense, but that somehow makes them even better. She has this natural ability to make everyone laugh, even on the most stressful days.

But with that big personality comes big emotions too. She feels everything deeply and isn’t afraid to show it. One minute she’s making us all laugh, the next she’s standing her ground with the determination of someone twice her age.

In the middle of all the chaos, she brings so much life into our home. She reminds me not to take everything so seriously, to laugh more, and to embrace the mess—both literally and figuratively.

The Balancing Act

Having children at such different stages means constantly switching roles.

One minute I’m helping with school things, the next I’m dealing with toddler meltdowns, then feeding the baby, all while trying to keep everything running smoothly.

It’s a lot.

And there’s no perfect balance. Some days one child needs me more than the others, and that’s just the reality of it. I’m learning to accept that I can’t always split myself evenly—and that doesn’t make me a bad mum.

The Moments That Make It Worth It

For every moment of guilt, there are ten moments that remind me why I wouldn’t change this for the world.

Watching my eldest be gentle with the baby. Seeing him try to make his younger siblings laugh. Watching my daughter light up a room just by being herself.

Those are the moments I hold onto.

Because at the end of the day, it’s not about being perfect—it’s about being present where you can, loving them deeply, and showing up every single day.

Real-Life Mum Hack: Keeping Them Busy (and Happy)

One of the biggest challenges I face day-to-day is making sure each child feels seen and entertained—especially when I’m juggling a baby and a toddler at the same time.

That’s where a few good go-to activities and toys make all the difference.

I’ll be sharing some of my favourite Amazon finds that have genuinely helped keep both my eldest and my daughter busy, engaged, and happy—whether it’s creative play, independent activities, or just something that buys me 10 minutes to feed the baby in peace.

These will always be my honest reviews. If something works in a house as busy and chaotic as mine, then it’s definitely worth sharing.

From fun, imaginative toys that match my daughter’s big personality to things that keep my football-loving son entertained, I’ll only ever recommend what we truly love and use.

Because as mums, we don’t need perfect—we just need things that help.

And if I can help make your day even slightly easier, that means everything.

My Go-To as a Busy Mum: Honest Amazon Finds

With four children, getting out to the shops isn’t always realistic—especially with a baby and a toddler in tow. Some days, even the thought of getting everyone dressed and out the door feels like a mission in itself.

That’s why Amazon has become my go-to as a mum.

It’s convenient, reliable, and honestly a bit of a lifesaver. Whether it’s something for the baby, essentials I’ve run out of, or things to keep my children entertained when I need to focus on the younger ones—it makes life that little bit easier.

Everything I’ll be sharing are my honest reviews and recommendations—things we actually use in our home.

Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: anything that helps even a tiny bit… is worth sharing.

To Any Other Mum Reading This

If you’re feeling the guilt, the overwhelm, the exhaustion—you’re not alone.

Motherhood isn’t about getting it right all the time. It’s about loving your children through the chaos, even on the days you feel like you’re not doing enough.

This is my journey. Four kids, endless noise, a lot of mess… but even more love.

My Toddler: Busy, Curious, and Full of Personality

My 1-year-old is at that wonderfully busy stage where everything is an adventure. He’s constantly on the move, exploring, climbing, and getting into absolutely everything he shouldn’t.

He’s also currently obsessed with Spider-Man—anything Spider-Man related instantly has his full attention. It’s been such a fun little phase to watch, and it’s helped me find toys and activities that actually keep him engaged for more than a few minutes.

His learning is happening so quickly at this age. Every day he’s picking up something new—whether it’s sounds, words, or figuring out how things work. Mealtimes are a mix of progress and mess (a lot of mess!), but he’s getting more confident with feeding himself, trying new textures, and developing his own little preferences.

It’s chaotic, but it’s also such a special stage to witness.

My Baby: The Fourth and Final Piece of the Puzzle

My 4-month-old has brought a whole new rhythm to our home. As much as I thought I knew what to expect, every baby is different—and this journey has been no exception.

We recently dealt with a bit of skin irritation and chapped skin, which is never nice to see on such a tiny baby. After trying a few things, I found a product on Amazon that really helped soothe and calm his skin.

This is exactly why I love sharing honest recommendations—because when something genuinely works, especially for your baby, you want other mums to know about it too.

Feeding Journey: Doing What Works for Us

One thing I’ve learned as a mum of four is that every feeding journey looks different.

With my baby, I’ve had to mix feed—and that’s something I’ve learned to fully accept without guilt. Between managing four children and everything that comes with it, sometimes you have to do what works best for you and your baby.

Introducing a bottle was a big part of that. I found one that my baby took to really well, which made those busy moments so much easier—especially when I needed an extra pair of hands or just a moment to breathe.

I’ll be sharing the exact bottle I used and my honest thoughts on it, because I know how overwhelming it can be trying to choose the right one.

At the end of the day, fed is best—and finding what works for your family is all that matters.

Mum Must-Haves: Products That Actually Help (Honest Reviews)

As a mum of four, I don’t have time for products that might work. If I’m buying something, it needs to make life easier, calmer, or at least a little less chaotic.

Below are some of my go-to Must Haves!

For My 6-Year-Old (Keeping Him Busy & Happy):

⚽ Football Training Set

Why I love it: Perfect for burning energy when I can’t get out the house.

Real mum verdict: Keeps him entertained and active while I’m busy with the younger three.

Agility Ladder- https://amzn.to/4uP7315

Mitral scribble ball https://amzn.to/3NVYWzc

Football mat indoor- https://amzn.to/4uRNNjt

Guess who football game-https://amzn.to/4lMSvLg

Kick Trainer- https://amzn.to/41rnG5r

🎮 Kids Gaming

Why I love it: Easy for him to use on his own (which is a win for me!).

Real mum verdict: Great for independent play when I need to focus on the baby.

ninendo switch - https://amzn.to/3O2BK2h

Case for the switch-https://amzn.to/4d92h8q

FC26 switch game-https://amzn.to/4t0xOhk

Nintendo Switch Sports-https://amzn.to/4lVTfOu

Super Mario bro wonder- https://amzn.to/3PuCZYu

For My 4-Year-Old (Creative & Full of Personality):

👗 Dress-Up & Role Play Sets

Why I love it: Perfect for her bold, unique style.

Real mum verdict: She can spend ages creating outfits and characters—keeps her and her brothers busy and happy.

Spiderman-https://amzn.to/4sHtiof

Princess-https://amzn.to/4s450Uw

Gruffalo costume after reading the gruffalo-https://amzn.to/4t98rKl

Graffalo book-https://amzn.to/3NpNJa5

🎨 Arts & Crafts Kits

Why I love it: Encourages creativity (and gives me a few quiet minutes!).

Real mum verdict: A lifesaver on busy days when I need her focused on something fun.

Arts and crafts must- https://amzn.to/4lTX2vB

coloured paper-https://amzn.to/4rSqN1a

Finger Painting- https://amzn.to/4dJym6N

Water paints-https://amzn.to/3NKJ56n

Scissors-https://amzn.to/4rUuuDx

Make your stickers-https://amzn.to/4tbdaeH

Stickers-https://amzn.to/4bMS7I2

Playdoh-https://amzn.to/3PmJOLP

Pritt sticks-https://amzn.to/3NCmWr5

For My 1-Year-Old (Learning Through Play):

🕷️ Spider-Man Toys

Why I love it: Anything Spider-Man instantly grabs his attention.

Real mum verdict: Keeps him engaged and happy while I juggle everything else.

Spiderman construction race track-https://amzn.to/4t4RYqm

Spiderman action figure- https://amzn.to/4t4Hck1

Lego spiderman build-https://amzn.to/4uQMuBt

Arts and Crafts-https://amzn.to/3NmHmUY

Spiderman Backpack- https://amzn.to/3NLj2w2

Spiderman memory game-https://amzn.to/4sQjatD

🧸 Sensory Learning Toys

Why I love it: Supports his development while he plays.

Real mum verdict: Great for keeping his little hands busy and mind learning.

Montessori sensory toy-https://amzn.to/4uRdJvM

Montessori Busy board-https://amzn.to/4sEjDiq

Tummy time for my beautiful baby- https://amzn.to/487hKSR

Motion fidget toy-https://amzn.to/4t4STHk

For My Baby (Gentle & Practical Essentials):

🧴 Baby Skincare for Irritation

Why I love it: Helped soothe his chapped, irritated skin., teething-baby product!

Real mum verdict: One of those products you’re so grateful to find when something actually works.

Talcum Powder-https://amzn.to/4rTKuWw

Child Farm shampoo and body wash-https://amzn.to/4c5dntV

Bonjela for teething-https://amzn.to/4t20FBP

Aquaphor For chapped skin especially eczema-https://amzn.to/47quILo

Bepanthen Cream for the nappy sore rashes-https://amzn.to/4uRSqdr

Mustela Cleansing water-https://amzn.to/41wmuh6

🍼 Baby Bottle for Mix Feeding

Why I love it: Easy to use and my baby took to it really well.

Real mum verdict: Made mix feeding so much easier in a busy house of four kids.

MAM new-born starter-https://amzn.to/4syXsdm

For my toddler as i had to stop breastfeeding at an early age he adjusted really well to the MAMA Easy start Bottles-https://amzn.to/4c5d8iv

The extra teats are important for when you need a replacement because of teething with the toddler-https://amzn.to/4rStuQk

MAM formula Dispenser- https://amzn.to/3NP2qmW

Every product I share comes from real-life use in a busy household. These aren’t perfect moments—these are real solutions that help me get through the day.

Because if it works in a house like ours! It will work for you too!